The Life Of Cale Exposed

This is the first post I've written on this blog. So let me give you the intro.

I am in my late twenties and have started coming into my own dirty side. Up until a few months ago I was probably considered vanilla in action but probably not in mind. As a direct result of exposure to some friends of mine, the dirty side has started to come out swinging. So I need a place to write about it. I will not go there on my real blogspot account out of respect for the people I'm going to talk about.

I won't say who I am. I will not use real names. So now you know my name isn't Christoph McCale. It's a pseudonym I came up with in college when I started exploring the world of m4m chat rooms on AOL. But you can call me Cale. I will even try not to give you a clue where I am and even change some of the details of my real life to confuse would-be accusers. And even if you do figure it out I'll just tell you that you're wrong.

I have a partner of eight years. We live in a nice house with our cat and aquarium of goldfish. (No, we don't feed them to the cat. We get asked that a lot.) We've enjoyed being quite happy together and opened our relationship a little over a year ago. But it's not a signal that the relationship is dying. And it's not for a lack of love or sex, but an abundance of trust we've gained from being together. We are just wild guys who believe that sex is just a part of being a guy. One may not be available for the other when the he wants it. So we just make sure the other is cool with it before doing anything. Each holds veto power, everything must be safe, and if we can't get in touch it's a no-go.

So welcome...to my blog of tricks and emergence experiences. ;)